Strength.........A must Read Poem

I asked for Strength.... .....
And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for Wisdom...... ...
And God gave me Problems to solve.

I asked for Prosperity.. .......
And God gave me Brain and Brawn to work.

I asked for Courage..... ....
And God gave me Danger to overcome.

I asked for Love........ .
And God gave me Troubled people to help.

I asked for Favors...... ...
And God gave me Opportunities.

I received nothing I wanted ........
I received everything I needed!

Women

I was born, a woman was there to hold me...MY MOTHER
I grew as a child, a woman was there to care for me, to play with me...MY SISTER
I went to school, a woman was there to help me learn...MY TEACHER
I became depress, whenever I lost, a woman was there to offer a shoulder...MY WIFE
I became tough, a woman was there to melt me...MY DAUGHTER
I am dying, a woman is there to absorb me...MY MOTHERLAND
all men should be thankful to women.THANKS WOMAN...

God--An Experience

 I  want to share one experience. I am a strong god believer but i never go to temple or bribe god by saying that will give this and that if such a thing happens.

So, Let me say. It was in 2006. I was working with one leading publishers in Kottayam in the HR and Personnel Department, but really fed up with the lots of works, partiality of the management and low salary and the employers rough attitude towards ladies.

Though, I prayed to god to give me something better, it never happened, instead day by day, i was given lots of works only. I found it too difficult to handle the statutory compliances, attendance, payroll of more than 500 persons alone. But then with the god given strength, i somehow done it.

Then, it was on March 26th that i saw a man who don't know any work, just jogging about in the office and much junior to me was given a very high salary hike. This really brought tears in my eyes. But then nothing can be done. With hope, sitting there, i prayed to God, but not the usual one, i just prayed, next month my birthday comes, and on that day, i should give my resignation.

Days passed by, many many applications were sent but no response. But everyday i talked to God, as i was talking to a friend, i just told him,see your time ends here, just prove-- like that.

But on, April 23rd night, ,i received a call from a highly reputed company, to attend for a interview at their place on 25th.I went to the interview, attednded it. Then on my way back, i received the second call from them to attend the second interveiw on 27th. I went there, nothing to speak, they just asked me the salary part. They quickly agreed to my part, gave me the offer letter within an hour. See, on that day, afternoon, i went the office and submitted my resignation and then joined in the new company from may 22nd.

It was my birthday on Apr 27th. Now, God gave me, what i asked, but he gave it to me only when he felt that i was needy, what i asked with real tears in my eyes. Now, one more thing, now only i came to understand that why god gave me such a work load at that place, it is because he was giving me knowledge and strength to handle statutory compliance, because he had some plans for me, which i was not aware of. See, when i left that company, many a people contacted me for statutory doubts, and even from the company, where i left they contacted me for preparing annual returns. So, then, I thought, why cannot i make it my own, now with proud let me tell you, alone i am handling the payroll of more than 50 companies and as far as known, the one and only lady consultant.

So, now this is the professional part. But let me say a small incident and stop. One day, my 12 year girl fell down and broke her knee, i was alone at that time, i took her to the nearby medical college, there they took her x-ray and told there is a fracture, so, plastering is to be done. So, i was totally alone, i have to go to get the plaster,do many a things, and i cannot take her also with me. Then, from nowhere a man appeared and told me that he is my mother's friend and he just came to visit a distant relative, and said to me you go and do all things, i will be with her, with the help of that good man, i purchased plaster, phoned my husband, (at that time, mobile was not so popular, and then i have to go out to make a call) then till the time of plastering he was there, but when my husband and father came, he was nowhere to be seen, and infact , i was not been able to say a thanks. But the funniest part is that when i asked my mother, she don't know any person by this name.

So, if you call god, god is there, but will not be with you, until you call him with real tears and then chat with god as if to a friend, he is having plans for us which we don't even dreamt of .

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Girls Vs Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

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Girls want to control the man in their life.
Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

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Girls check you for not calling them.
women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

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Girls are afraid to be alone.
women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

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Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

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Girls make you come home.
women make you want to come home.

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Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

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Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

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Girls think a guy crying is weak.
women offer their shoulder and a tissue. 

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Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

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Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
women know that that was just one man.

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Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

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Girls will read this and get an attitude.
women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends".

Women of Strength and Strong Women

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape ...

But a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape...

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A strong woman isn't afraid of anything ...

But a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear...

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A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her ...

But a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone...

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A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future...

A woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings and capitalizes on them...

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A strong woman walks sure footedly ...

But a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls...

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A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face ...

But a woman of strength wears grace...

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A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ...

But a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong...

I am not your friend

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to think before you speak to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

my presence ever makes you feel uncomfortable!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to thank me for everything i do for you!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to say sorry for everything that you don't do!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you have to ask me for favors!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think i would not be curious to know your new philosophy of life!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you go by what i say and do not understand what i don't say!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think that listening to your dreams would put me to sleep!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think that seeing you in pain, would not bring a tear to me!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you think I do not remember the first time we met!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you don't see the thousand ways I try to make you happy!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you don't realise how your smile brightens up my day!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you would rather keep quiet when you really wanna talk!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you hesitate to ask me to stay back when you think we should be together!

I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND IF.....

you take too much time to tell me what i mean to you!

Am I Your FRIEND ????

Women Are So Special

Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's
getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's
lunches. Rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the
freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box
levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the
table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning. She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes
into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She
picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on
the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. She
watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to
dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.
She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted
out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from
hiding under the chair. She signed a birthday card for a friend,
addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the
grocery store. She put both near her bag.
Mum then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night
Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth
and filed her nails.
Dad called out, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said. She put some water into the dog's dish
and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked and
the patio light was on. She looked in on each of the kids and
turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw
some dirty socks into the hamper, and had a brief conversation
with the one up still doing homework.
In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next
day, straightened up the shoe rack. She added three things to her
6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and
visualized the accomplishment of her goals.
About that time, Dad turned off the TV
and announced to no one in particular. "I'm going to bed." And he
did...without another thought.
Anything extraordinary here? Wonder why women live longer...?
'CAUSE THEY ARE MADE FOR THE LONG HAUL.......
(and they can't die sooner, they still have things to do!!!!)
Send this to five phenomenal women today...they' ll love you for
it!
And Forward this to as many men as you can so that they know why
women are so special .........!
God's very own creation!

Strength of a Man and Beauty of a woman

Strength of a Man

The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders.
It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you.

The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice.
It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he has.
It is how good a buddy he is with his kids.

The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work.
It is in how respected he is at home.

The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits.
It is in how tender he touches.

The strength of a man isn't how many women he's Loved by.
It is in how he can be true to one woman.

The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.

Beauty of a Woman

The beauty of a woman Is not in the clothes she wears, The figure she
carries, Or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman Must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart, The place where love
resides.

The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a
woman Is reflected in her soul.

It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows,

The beauty of a woman With passing years-only grows.

Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the
woman who is the last love of a man..

Mother's Love

When i drenched in the rain and came back Home,Different commments i heard.

Brother:Why didnt you took Umbrella with you?

Sister: Why didnt you wait till rains stopped?

Father: Only after you will get cold ,You will realize.

Mother dried my hair ,Kissed me and said " Stupid Rain"! thats Mom

Short story with a beautiful message...

Here is a short story with a beautiful message...

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'
The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'
'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.
'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.

'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go.'


In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...
This message is too short.......but carries a lot of Feelings.

 

It is not just a story......it is life

I am 40 years old,   recently, I met with a accident

My father who is 75, took me to my workplace in his two wheeler, when we came back, It started raining before 10 mins to our destination

When it rained, he asked me to take an auto and go and that he will come when the rain is stopped, I just went, If it was he in my place, he would never have left me like that

or if it was me and my daughter, I would not have done like that......

Now, I feel guilty.......but what to do ?

 

 

 

Forget about the Days when you’ve been LONELY,
but don’t forget the FRIENDLY SMILES you’ve seen.

Forget about the Days when it has been CLOUDY,
but don’t forget YOUR HOUR in the Sun.

Forget about the Time when you’ve been DEFEATED,
but don’t forget the VICTORIES you’ve won.

Forget about Misfortunes which you ENCOUNTERED,
but don’t forget the TIMES your LUCK has turned.

Forget about Mistakes that you can’t CHANGE,
but don’t forget the LESSON that you’ve learnt

"Silence is the best answer for all questions..."

"Smiling is the best reaction in all situations..."

Love is Life

Love is that when AMMA
kisses my Forehead...

Love is that, PAPPA waiting for me, when I came late

Love is that when my sister while doing my work says,
" Jab ma nhi hon gi to kon kare ga tumhary kaam"

Love is that when elder brother says,
"Tuje pasand hai, chal rakh le mai aur khareed lu ga"

Love is that when my best friend says
" Tension na le yaar, kuch ni hota, mein hun na"

Thats the way where
"LOVE IS LIFE"

I was very Happy

I was very happy

When I was admitted in the hospital in the room 101

Coz, I have seen the medics telling some that there is no

Need of admitting this patient, as there is no hope

And It showed that they had some hope on me

I was very happy

When the man in the room no 102 said,

So, “You have a big family”

Coz, inspite of having 6 grown up children,

Two wives and eight siblings he was always alone

And I was never left alone for a single minute

Though I had only one husband, two grown up children and one sister.

I was very happy

When the man in the room no. 103 said

“So you can sleep peacefully”

Coz, he was the top official of a company who was

Never able to sleep in the day due to pain and in the

Night due to phone calls. I Slept peacefully in the night

Coz, my friends never ever allowed me to sleep in the day

With their calls and presence.

I was very happy

When the lady in the room no.104 said

“So, You have a home”

Cos, she always had food from the hospital canteen

Inspite of having 3 houses

And she always heard my cooking classes over phone.

To the one and only home I have

I was very happy

When the man in the room no. 105 teased me

So, “You are a sales or marketing department”

As , he always heard me asking to the caller

Over phone……Hai, How are you ?

Coz, he never received any phone calls or visitors

In the hospital……as he was the director.

I was very happy

When my friends who came to visit

Said, “Yar did anything happen to the road or the benz”

Coz, benz is very costly and  we cannot afford it.

And for you we are there.

I was very happy

When the nurse  said to me

You will recover faster than others

Coz, you have relations

As she saw me walking

Holding my sister

And showed me others

Who walked on crutches.

I was very happy,

When the medic said,

I am sending you out of this hospital,

Coz, You don’t need our support

Because you have everything

Which money can’t buy

The one who encouraged me to come back to my writing

I recently met with an accident, was immobile

The person who encouraged me to open a blog.............

Dedicated to the one, without whom I would not have been like this

The one who stood with me like a pillar of strength and consoled my family.

The one who forgot own  family and work for me

The one who asked me , when saw me in the hospital…….arey, benz ko kuch  hua  kya ?  ye kya auto mein aayi, jab thoone bola benz ne maara tho meine socha ki thoo benz mein aayegi……arey, there liye mein hun, lekin benz ka khayal rakhne ke liye koi nahi he

The one who never asked me what you want , but gave me everything that I wanted

The one who never consoled me with words, but consoled with presence

The one who gave me books to read, and said……..arey kitabe open karne par hi thoo so jaati hai, when I complained that I cannot sleep due to the crucial pain and never slept for days……..

The one who said, chal re, there ko itna hua na , ab tho thoo theek se gaadi chala…..when others said, thanks to god………only this much happened

The one who said, arey thoo koi mother teresa nahi hai jo thujhe bhagwan itni jaldi bula le jaise karm kiya waise hi bhugatna padta hai………..when I said death  is better than this crucial pain………..

The one who never asked me how and what  happened and always teased me when I said to anybody that I met with an accident………arey, isko accident bolegi tho accident ko kya kahegi? and corrected……An Accident met with you…….

The one who talked continuously and never ever allowed me to think anything.

The one who never said , I Love you, I am there for you……..but always showed me what it meant.

The one who showed me what is optimism, dedication, strength love, relation ship and humour sense, in reality which I qualities  boasted that I had………..

Dedicated to my sister Anitha, for bringing back me to life so soon. (because I have seen persons  who met with an accident in the hospital even after six months)

You came into this world

My lovely daughters

A pink bundle with curly black hair

I looked at you helplessly and wondered

How do I care for you ?

So small, so sweet so vulnerable were you

My bewildered eyes looked

At your face and your delicate lips

Blossomed into

A mysterious smile

“What did your smile say?” I marveled

It said, “I am a miracle

It said, “I am a mystery”

It said, “I am your future”

It said, “I am your soul”

It said, “I am here to change your world, watch out!”

Your wail was sweet song to my ears,

But people shrieked, “you will be

A giver to your daughters all your life!”

“Who is a giver? Me or you ?”

Today after fifteen years

I am wiser, my darling daughters,

And know, you are the giver,

And I the taker

You give me a smile,

My eyes feel blessed

In seeing your pretty innocent face

You give me a hug,

My heart takes pride

In being the mother of  lovely children

You give me a kiss

My soul is drenched

With complete joy and eternal bliss

I Cut my finger

You rush to my aid

And cry, “Does it hurt ma ?”

“No dear not when you are there”

You chatter ,your pranks, your laughter

Has changed my world forever together

Now I know the meaning of

That strange smile

You gave me the day you were born

My lovely daughters

You are the light of my life

May you be a light to this world!

Oh, my precious gift from god.